Well, a couple of things cleared up for me then..
Star.. I'm sticking w/Star. I adore the name Geneva. Everyone I've ever known with that name goes by Ginny for some reason (Which I thought was short for Virginia)... so .. Anyway, I've called you Star in my mind for a while, so if ok with you, Star it is.
Deborah.. I've never known whether you prefer Deb or Deborah.. thought it must be Deb, since that's often how you sign. But.. I'll stick w/Deborah now.
Just not Debbie.
I'm boring... real name is Judith. Friends call me Judy... my kids and other family tend to call me Ju or Toots. I think I'll stay w/Judy, though