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Old 10-11-2019, 05:32 PM
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Default How to get Ben to be a little less nervous about my hand?

Ben was my first bird, I got him at Petco so not tame. After a year or so, he had really grown to like me a lot. He loved it when I would pay attention and talk to him. He'd stretch, chirp back and just generally be happy. He remained afraid of my hands though no matter what.

Later, I felt bad about him not having another bird to spend time with because sometimes he still looked a little lonely/sad. So I bought Kiwi who is a hand-raised bird and loves humans. For the first week, I couldn't even get her off of me! Ben was so excited to have a friend, he's now the happiest bird you'll ever meet.

Anyway, to my surprise her behavior with humans mostly rubbed off on Ben. He became much more outgoing and friendly. He started to go on my head and shoulders, and if she came to my hand he would follow her! He's not scared of me at all now unless I make really sudden movements.

But still, for whatever reason he very rarely will come to my hand on his own. Only when Kiwi comes first. After he comes, he's perfectly happy and will hang out there forever. He's even gone to sleep there a few times! He'll fly on my head on his own all day long, but not the hand. If I hold my hand out next to him, he looks away and steps back a bit like he's either scared or shy.

If I sit on the couch a few feet away and hold out my hand and tell him to come, he runs to the edge of the cage, looks right at my hand, crouches down to jump and fly to me but never follows through. After a few times doing that, he starts squaking and pacing around like he's mad at himself that he didn't come. It's actually kinda cute lol.

But anyway, this got wordier than I wanted. Anything I can do to encourage him to come more often on his own, or is this just how it's going to be? It's so weird, if Kiwi comes first he's right behind her with zero hesitation. I guess this isn't the biggest deal in the world, but I do wish he could get over this little hang-up.

He's not scared of anything else about me. I can even put my head just a few inches from him and talk, and he'll just close his eyes and purr/coo/chirp back to me.

He's 3.5 years old, if that means anything.