Hey guys, my budgie Lemon likes playing this game (I think) with me. It's where I blink for a long time, then he blinks for a long time, then I blink once and he blinks once.... etc. Basically we just keep blinking at each other and I was wondering what this means and if other budgies do this and it's not just my budgie? Thanks!
Hello there! I think blinking at us is one of the primary methods of communication, and in my experience indicates they are comfortable with you. Sometimes they enjoy the communication so much it almost hypnotises them and they can go to sleep! And as already said, quite a few birds enjoy winking at you too. Good sign I think that Lemon is bonding with you!
I do this with my girl Pippin, Henry is catching on as well. When we blink at each other she physically relaxes, she is a very timid little girl but ones we blink she then likes making little chirpy noises I love her
Ha ha! You can really go to town if you want to! I do! But some of it may make you feel a bit silly at first - and you may not want to let other people see!
Just copy Lemon when she does any of the following - she will love it!
- the simultaneous wing and leg stretch
- nodding your head
- the fast head scratch
- grinding her beak (you grind your teeth!)
- the standing fluff or flutter
- the wings back
- the bottom/tail shake (not for the feint hearted!)
- the head bobbing (goes even better if you make clicking sounds in time)
Julie, I had to google ROTFL and get the meaning in an urban dictionary! Well, any witnesses could do that, or they could make a few calls and have me taken away and locked up!! Yes you are right, it is completely daft - but I'm afraid that doesn't stop me! It is worth the potential ridicule for the continuing bonding benefits! Do you think Deb may ban me from the forum?!