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Juhi 07-19-2014 05:08 PM

We miss her
 
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I thought of writing my heart out here today because I am sad. I have been sad and heart broken since the day I lost my first budgie, Moon. It was that fateful day in the month of December when I woke up to the screams of my mother. I knew something terrible had happened. I rushed to her and saw her hugging the cage and crying. I looked inside and Moon was lying still. No movement. No chirping. No nothing. Those eyes which used to brim with excitement were now lifeless and dull.
:(
Moon was an extremely energetic, curious and an intelligent Budgie. She was the star of our family. We used to wake up to her incessant chirping. She and Sun (her partner) had the best relationship. The one true love sorts.

Her partner knew something bad had happened. He was frantically trying to wake her up. He kept on nudging at her lifeless body.

I picked up Moon and kissed her like a thousand times. I was begging her to chirp again. Imploring her to come back. I was a mess and so was Sun. He was quiet the whole day. He kept on looking for her. Sun was never the same after that day. It has been 8 months since Moon died and Sun hasn't moved on. He hasn't accepted any partner. He has guy friends and he enjoys a decent flight with them but his personality has changed. He has sobered down a lot. Maybe that is what losing your one true love does. :(

We gave Moon the best burial. She deserved it. :)

After that day I changed as well. I had seen their love blossom. I had witnessed their love story. And that is by far the most beautiful Love I have experienced in my life. It beats the likes of even the timeless romantic movies.

I knew what Sun was going through. I still feel his pain. Because I lost someone I loved as well. As they say the language of love is universal. Thanks to Moon and Sun, I got to witness a very pure and pious form of love.


Sorry for this long post. I just miss her. I hate seeing Sun alone. And I am so grateful to this community. It is a pleasure to be around people who genuinely love these little ones. I am so happy that so many budgies are being loved and cared for. I feel happy and blessed to be a part of this community where everyone is so nice and caring and benevolent. :)

Thank you.

Love at first sight:
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The last kiss.
I guess Sun knew something was wrong. They stayed like this for 10 minutes. Completely still. They used to stand like this a lot, but this day it was different. It was longer than usual.
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The final Goodbye.
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RioBlueFrites 07-19-2014 05:18 PM

This is such a sad yet wonderful love story. May Sun one day find something or someone who brings him back to his blissful happiness that he felt with sky. RIP little Sky you went much to soon and touched everyone who knew you. May you fly high at rainbow bridge. Remember Juhi we will always be here for you and Sun is a great way to remember her.

Ballad to the dead

In our hearts you Live

In our memories you soar

In our grief you are loved

In our actions you are remembered

-Me

aluz 07-19-2014 05:26 PM

You did a wonderful tribute to the life of your very precious girl, Moon.
And I can relate perfectly to the feelings you're having. I have had budgies since I was 5 years old, I literally grew up with them, watched them very closely and learned the facts of life with them. The love my first pair had, their eggs and chicks, I felt so blessed to be witnessing all and with them I also learnt to love and respect mother nature.
Even though your Moon is not present in physical form, the memory of her lives on in your heart and through all the happy moments you shared with her.
I hope both you and Sun will feel better as time goes on. Maybe one day he will find another mate, it's certainly not impossible, I can tell you that from experience. :)

Juhi 07-19-2014 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by RioBlueFrites (Post 2286713)
This is such a sad yet wonderful love story. May Sun one day find something or someone who brings him back to his blissful happiness that he felt with sky. RIP little Sky you went much to soon and touched everyone who knew you. May you fly high at rainbow bridge. Remember Juhi we will always be here for you and Sun is a great way to remember her.

Ballad to the dead

In our hearts you Live

In our memories you soar

In our grief you are loved

In our actions you are remembered

-Me


That is a beautiful ballad. Thank you so much.
I sincerely wish for Sun to fall in love again. And I am sure Moon is bugging the rainbow bridge residents with her incessant chirping. Oh the way she used to chirp. Full of life and excitement and just so LOUD. :):D

Juhi 07-19-2014 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by aluz (Post 2286745)
You did a wonderful tribute to the life of your very precious girl, Moon.
And I can relate perfectly to the feelings you're having. I have had budgies since I was 5 years old, I literally grew up with them, watched them very closely and learned the facts of life with them. The love my first pair had, their eggs and chicks, I felt so blessed to be witnessing all and with them I also learnt to love and respect mother nature.
Even though your Moon is not present in physical form, the memory of her lives on in your heart and through all the happy moments you shared with her.
I hope both you and Sun will feel better as time goes on. Maybe one day he will find another mate, it's certainly not impossible, I can tell you that from experience. :)

I sincerely hope that Sun finds another mate. He whiles away his time with all the male budgies. They leave the females in the cage and hold private meetings at the window grill or the curtain rod. :)

Moon will forever live in my heart. She was my first baby.

Thank you aluz. :)

FaeryBee 07-19-2014 06:05 PM

Your tribute to little Moon is beautiful.

Fly high and free sweet Moon; rest peacefully now wee girl.

It is because of Love we Grieve
and
Because of Love we are also comforted
in our Sorrow

In Memories, may you find Healing
In Time, may you find Peace
In the Power of Love, may you find Comfort.

Juhi 07-19-2014 06:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FaeryBee (Post 2286793)
Your tribute to little Moon is beautiful.

Fly high and free sweet Moon; rest peacefully now wee girl.

It is because of Love we Grieve
and
Because of Love we are also comforted
in our Sorrow

In Memories, may you find Healing
In Time, may you find Peace
In the Power of Love, may you find Comfort.

Thank you so much :)

Those lines are beautiful and so true.

kcladyz 07-19-2014 10:06 PM

they were indeed a lovely couple

Juhi 07-20-2014 04:16 AM

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Originally Posted by kcladyz (Post 2287241)
they were indeed a lovely couple

They were :)
Thank you :hug:

LynandIndigo 07-20-2014 05:42 AM

I am so sorry for the loss of Moon. Remember the good times and cherish your loving memories they are in your heart forever and no one can take them away from you.. You are a wonderful budgie owner we no you loved your beloved budgie moon and she loved you to. You need to spend more time with your other budgie sun as he will be missing moon so very much talk him give him all of your love.. I no how you feel.. If you need to talk to us we are here for you.



Somewhere over the rainbow
Way up high
And the dreams that you dreamed of once in a lullaby

Oh somewhere over the rainbow
Bluebird fly
And the dreams that you dreamed of dreams
Really do come true

Someday I'll wish upon a star
Wake up where the clouds are far behind me
Where trouble melts like lemon drops
High above the chimney tops
That's where you'll find me

Oh somewhere over the rainbow
Bluebirds fly
And the dreams that you dare to
Oh why, oh why can't I?

Well, I see
Trees of green and red roses too,
I'll watch them bloom for me and you
And I think to myself,
What a wonderful world.

Well I see,
Skies of blues and, clouds of white,
And the brightness of day, I like the dark
And I think to myself,
What a wonderful world.

The colors of the rainbow so pretty in the sky
Are also on the faces of people passing by
I see friends shaking hands saying how do you do
They're really saying I... I love you.

I hear babies cry and I watch them grow
They'll learn much more than we know
And I think to myself
What a wonderful world.

Oh someday I'll wish upon a star
Wake up where the clouds are far behind
Where trouble melts like lemon drops
High above the chimney tops
That's where you'll find me

Oh somewhere over the rainbow
way up high
and the dreams that you dare to
Why, oh why can't I, I?


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