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In Memory Tributes and Memorials to Budgies which have moved on to the Rainbow Bridge

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Old 06-28-2016, 12:30 PM
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This took a few days to get out and actually log into my computer. Ive... been having a hard time coping with this one.
Its seems now BB, my little green girl, had passed a few days ago. the day started as normal as every other morning, i was packing up to go to an art sale thing this weekend with my mom. BB and Lea's cage was cleaned and set up with fresh food and water. they had about an hour that morning of out of the cage time to fly around and enjoy the sun in the room.
Sunbathing, we like to call it.
I came home that same Sunday night to eat dinner with the family. It was my brother's 18th birthday... sort of a big thing.
well wen all was said and done i came home to let them out again before i was going to lock up for bed... and noticed both of my girls were around their favorite chew toy: a dangling toy of cardboard boxes that once held paper shreddings and braided twine for them to hold onto. It was one of the first toys i ever got for BB for christmas.
I reached in to let them out and Lea jumped up on my hand, per usual... but BB... didnt move. Didnt flinch.
I took Lea to her perch outside of the cage and turned back around to notice BB was wrapping herself around the hanging toy quite oddly.

I know this is how we learn but... it still struck me deep. I still havnt cried about it... im sure ill explode some time this week...

Lea seems alright. Her attitude hasnt changed much... but she does flock call when im out of the room now. I cant bring myself to get another bird just yet... but i cant leave her in a quiet room. its not fair.

Maybe a little radio for her when i go to work would work out? She sings to Opera when i have it on...



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Old 06-28-2016, 12:49 PM
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I'm so sorry for this unfortunate accident which led to your BB's passing...
You have my deepest sympathies.

Yes, you do well in leaving the radio on for Lea when you aren't home.
Also be sure to give her some extra TLC in order to help Lea adjust to the new reality. It's wise to allow Lea and yourself the time to mourn for BB and later on you can decide if Lea would benefit from the companionship of another budgie friend or not.

I'm sending my best wishes to you and Lea in this very challenging time.

Rest in peace little BB.
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Old 06-28-2016, 01:21 PM
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Lee, I'm so very sorry to hear of this accident and your loss of BB. I know it's rough. You have my sympathy during this difficult time.
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Old 06-28-2016, 05:16 PM
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Lee,

I'm very sorry to hear about your loss of little BB

Try to spend as much time with Lea as you can and do leave the TV or radio on for her when you aren't around.
It is because of Love we Grieve
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Because of Love we are also comforted
in our Sorrow

In Memories, may you find Healing
In Time, may you find Peace
In the Power of Love, may you find Comfort
Fly high and soar free little BB; Rest peacefully now sweet girl.
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Old 06-28-2016, 05:42 PM
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My sincere and deepest sympathies on your loss of bb. I'm so sorry.Sending you comforting prayers in your time of sorrow.Blessings
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Lee,

I'm so sorry to hear of the unexpected accident that led to BB's passing!

She was much loved and will be dearly missed. We have a thread here on the forums where you can post a photo of an unsafe toy, it might be worth doing that so others can ensure not to purchase it.

She knew she was loved in your care, I'm sure of it.

Rest in peace, free of pain or hurt, little BB. You belong with the stars now.

Hugs to you during this very difficult time! I can't imagine what you're going through
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Lee.. I'm so sorry this has happened. We can all learn from this. It's so hard to lose a little friend.
Warm thoughts to you.
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Hi Lee,

Hope I'm not too late to say First: I'm really sorry about BB. It's such a void losing a pet. I admire that you sound so strong. It's also comforting you have Lea, like having someone to mourn with. Although I tend to think our pets are more resilient than we are. Music would be nice but "lot's of lovin'" too. It might help you both. Maybe you won't get another bird.. Who knows?
But I do hope your time of grieving won't feel lonely and will be brief.
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Oh No - my blood ran cold to read this. I am so very sorry for your tragic loss - I pray time will heal your heart...Do give Lea some extra time with you, if possible, and that radio does sound like a good idea.
Please accept my deepest sympathy and comforting prayers
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Oh no. I'm sorry for your loss. I, too, know what it's like to lose a budgie completely unexpectedly and it's difficult. I hope you and Lea are able to find peace.
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