It's always hard to turn away from the little ones at the pet stores.. But it's absolutely true that we can't sponsor the terrible and unethical breeders that supply pet stores by buying budgies from them. My girl was from a big-box store too, since at the time i wasn't able to find an ethical breeder or rescue near me (I lived in a relatively remote part of the US with regard to budgies back then). Every time I have gone to big-box stores since then I always wish I could help those babies..