Sugar and Shine

So I bought 2 budgies for my 21st birthday back in October. I don’t drive so when I got them from the pet store I had to take a taxi, then a bus and then another taxi and then walk down the street to my house. That was probably the worst conditions from the start because all vehicles had loud talking and loud music. I read that in the first week you’re not supposed to interact with your birds because they need to get used to their surroundings. I told that to my mother but she insisted she had to talk to them the first night I brought them home. And when she talks it’s realllyyy loud. In addition to my mother my sister often comes and pokes her finger into the side of their cage and it always frightens them. My dad also hates them and often expresses that he does so he sometimes bangs my door open and it startles them every time. He even hits their cage whenever he gets the opportunity. My mother still continues to talk to them but I don’t mind because they’re probably used to their surroundings by now but whenever I try to talk to them my dad makes fun of me and he tells everyone that I must have gone crazy because I’m talking to my birds and he constantly brings it up, especially since I’m an introvert and don’t socialise much. I wish I could spend more time with my birds but shortly after getting them my schedule was leaving home at 5am for school and arriving back at 3am in the morning only to leaving 2 hours later at 5am again because of transportation issues. It only ended last month when I leave home 5am and arrive back at 12am to leave at 5am again. But currently I’m leaving home at 5am and coming back at 9:30pm because of my class schedule. So I didn’t get to spend much time with my budgies so they probably bonded to each other instead of me. Over the Christmas vacation I got them to start eating out of my hands but that’s only if I don’t put any food in their cage and they scurry away from me as soon as they are finished. What should I do? :green plet: